This is an alphabetical version. For a subjective ranked version see: Ranked: How To Have A Conversation?
This is a list of books on how to have conversations.
How To Think About The Conversation Partner(s):
- 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos by Jordan B. Peterson
- Curious: The Desire to Know and Why Your Future Depends on It by Ian Leslie
- Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman
- How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain by Lisa Feldman Barrett
- The Theory of Moral Sentiments by Adam Smith
- The Status Game: On Human Life and How to Play It: On Social Position and How We Use it by Will Storr
What Prevents A Quality Conversations:
- Artificial Intelligence: A Guide for Thinking Humans by Melanie Mitchell
- Blind Spots: Why We Fail to Do What's Right and What to Do about It by Max H. Bazerman, Ann E. Tenbrunsel
- The Constitution of Knowledge: A Defense of Truth by Jonathan Rauch
- The End of Gender: Debunking the Myths about Sex and Identity in Our Society by Debra Soh
- Fight Club Politics: How Partisanship Is Poisoning the U.S. House of Representatives by Juliet Eilperin
- Hot Buttons: How to Resolve Conflict and Cool Everyone Down by Sybil Evans, Sherry Suib Cohen
- The Myth of Left and Right: How the Political Spectrum Misleads and Harms America by Verlan Lewis, Hyrum Lewis
- The Open Society and Its Enemies by Karl Popper
- Scarcity: Why Having Too Little Means So Much by Sendhil Mullainathan, Eldar Shafir
- Think Like a Freak by Steven D. Levitt, and Stephen J. Dubner
- War Is a Force that Gives Us Meaning by Chris Hedges
- Woke Racism: How a New Religion Has Betrayed Black America by John McWhorter
What Prevents A Quality Conversations / Fiction:
- A Voracious Grief by Lindsey Lamh
How To Have A Quality Conversations:
- From Third World to First: The Singapore Story: 1965-2000 by Lee Kuan Yew
- The Heroine With 1,001 Faces by Maria Tatar
- How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
- How We Learn: Why Brains Learn Better Than Any Machine ... for Now by Stanislas Dehaene
- Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini
- Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It by Chris Voss
- The Possibility Principle: How Quantum Physics Can Improve the Way You Think, Live, and Love by Mel Schwartz
- Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade by Robert Cialdini
- Rationality: What It Is, Why It Seems Scarce, Why It Matters by Steven Pinker
- The Socrates Express: In Search of Life Lessons from Dead Philosophers by Eric Weiner
The Need For Disagreement And Different Perspectives:
- In Defense of Troublemakers: The Power of Dissent in Life and Business by Charlan Jeanne Nemeth
- On Liberty by John Stuart Mill
- A Philosophy of Evil by Lars Svendsen
- Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know by Adam Grant
- Why Societies Need Dissent by Cass R. Sunstein
- The Wisdom of Crowds by James Surowiecki
Context Of Quality Conversations:
Group Dynamics:
- Moral Tribes: Emotion, Reason, and the Gap Between Us and Them by Joshua D. Greene
- Inventing the Enemy by Umberto Eco
- Political Tribes: Group Instinct and the Fate of Nations by Amy Chua
- Rule Makers, Rule Breakers: Tight and Loose Cultures and the Secret Signals that Direct Our Lives by Michele Gelfand
- The Secret of Our Success: How Culture Is Driving Human Evolution, Domesticating Our Species, and Making Us Smarter by Joseph Henrich